It's only natural to want to seek revenge, or even the score when your spouse or principal other has cheated on you. Many victims of infidelity resort to revenge cheating or retaliatory affairs to get back at a cheating mate. Other infidelity victims get even with the cheater in destructive, or even violent ways.
Get Revenge Legally or Financially
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If you want honestly get revenge on a cheating spouse, find a way to do it legally or financially. Otherwise, it's just not worth your time. There are legal ways to deal the cheater a devastating blow without doing something that will put you on the wrong side of the law. See a divorce attorney or a financial advisor who can tell you what your legal and financial options are. Revenge is so much best when it's done legally. think some of the tactics below:
o Take proprietary of the house for yourself and the children in a way that the cheater still has to pay the mortgage on it, even though he can't live there anymore.
o Get the court to wish the cheater to fork over so much alimony or child keep that it will put a serious crimp in the cheater's lifestyle and proper of living.
o Have the courts wish the cheater to sell his or her company or other assets to provide you with your fair share of the marital assets.
o Think how deeply will it hurt the cheater to only be able to see his children on weekends and holidays.
o How devastating would it be for a wife to lose custody of her children because you've proven in court that she's an unfit mother.
o What best revenge can you get against a cheating and gold-digging spouse than by legally limiting the share of the marital assets that he or she can gain passage to.
o Studies show that most cheating women are ready to leave their marriage mates if it comes to that. Get revenge by refusing to give her a divorce.
o Studies show that most cheating men don't want to leave their families or divorce their wives. Get your revenge by divorcing a cheating husband who thinks he can have his cake and eat it too.
Check with an attorney or a financial advisor, because laws vary from state to state.
Keep in mind , however, that trying to get revenge on a cheating spouse who has violent or aggressive tendencies can be a perilous game. No matter how much the cheater may deserve what he or she gets, they may retaliate against you in violent or aggressive ways. So tread carefully, or you could end up in the hospital - or even worse - the grave.
The Best Revenge of All
In the end, the best revenge may be to do nothing. Once the cheater is aware that you know about the affair, hold your head high, act honorably, and show the cheater that you refuse to lower yourself to his or her level to seek revenge.
Show the cheater your life will go on just fine with or without them. The cheater will whether be consumed with guilt over how he or she has treated you. Or he or she will never have peace of mind because they'll keep seeing over their shoulder, waiting for the "other shoe to drop." And that may be the best revenge of all.
How to Gain the Upper Hand
If your spouse or principal other is cheating on you, there are other measures you can take to gain the upper hand. For a free tip sheet entitled How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand, e-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com with "Upper Hand - ez" in the branch line. Despite the title, most of the suggestions in this tip sheet also apply to husbands with cheating wives. For more information about infidelity, cheating spouses and extramarital affairs, visit www.InfidelityAdvice.com
Legal and Financial Ways to Get Revenge on a Cheating Spouse
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